Since I started at my new job, one of my co-workers, Stef G., has consistently come up with very odd, random topics of conversations. If this were anyone else I might feel a bit odd or even annoyed by it, but he’s so genuinely entertaining that it’s actually a breath of fresh air.

Today, randomly, he and another co-worker (Simon B.) were discussing the ordering experience at our building’s deli. They got chili, and there were options like “spicy or extra spicy”. This led Simon to suggest that they should just have an option called “guess.”

The level of Monty Python that this conversation reached was actually pretty cool, and not in the way I usually refer to that troupe and its material.

A sample bizarre scenario: The soup of the day is called “Guess”, posted on a board at a restaurant.

Customer: I’ll have the soup of the day.

Waiter: ‘OK, extra spicy?

Customer: Uhhhh…. yes?

Waiter [shaking head and giggling to himself, writing further notes on his pad...]

I might actually eat at that restaurant.

It’s refreshing working with funny creative people again. It’s been a long time since I’ve had that environment, and it’s a welcome change.

I was officially hired on full-time on Friday, which was a full month a head of schedule. (I was still in a preliminary “probation” period via the recruiter that placed me here, Aquent. They are highly recommended.)

I have been asked to further blog about an upcoming bread-making tutorial I’ll be doing with my friend Andrea. I’ll try to take pics. We’re making both basic French bread and pizza, and I’ll be teaching how to properly toss the dough. (Note: I am not of Italian background, but Andrea is. I’m sure this violates some historical context but I’m not certain.)

Two more weeks until Spring. At a guess, 6 – 7 months until I take a vacation.

Onwards!

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Hello again.

Many of you may have known: I was laid off last year. I am far from the only person this happened to. I was laid off in May from what was at the time my favorite job I had ever had. Working for a great company (Leo Burnett, in their digital ARC Worldwide division,) working with great, very smart people, working for great clients and companies (Kelloggs, primarily) and then: gone. It was unfortunately a purely numbers decision. Everybody was cutting costs, and my salary was a big enough cost that it warranted cutting. I get that.

I did get a severance package but it only covered me for maybe an additional two months. I didn’t find work again until the last week of August. When I did, it paid roughly 1/3rd of what I had been making for the past eight years. (Note: I will not name names or figures. Just because.) This meant that as the months wore on I fell further and further behind on bills, rent, the ability to afford food, the ability to afford transit, etc. Add to this that transit fare also rose in the past few months. This would prove to be an additional burden.

Many of you may be aware that I finally did secure a decent new job which puts me essentially in the same kind of position (Tech Lead / Senior Developer) at a company I genuinely love (6 Degrees, working in their Real Interactive division) working with some more extremely smart, funny, talented people. I started in January and it’s been great.

Why I say all of this is: finding work has consistently been something I’ve been good at, and something I’ve been good at assisting others with. I’ve personally written cover letters for just over 30 friends of mine, and assisted with editing and prepping their resumes.  I pre-set a time limit for how long we take at massaging the resume or the cover letter, and depending on who it is or what industry it is, I may take a stab at a few kinds of resume. (Functional versus historical, etc.) It’s been very educational for me because it takes me out of my own personal work history and familiarity with my own work background and instead forces me to examine this as “net new” content. I have been successful with all but three of these resumes, and until last year I was very successful with my own resume.

Last Summer’s events nearly broke me both financially and in other ways, and it made me question everything about how I look for work, and how well I do what I do. It also made me question whether it was time to find something completely different to do for a living.

My reason for mentioning all this is that I know many people who are on the fence about completely changing their career path. Some work in quasi-entertainment industry (I can’t really refer to it strictly as the music industry anymore,) some in design, some in advertising, etc. Those kinds of decisions excite me because I actually really enjoyed my career transitions. I have had three so far. First was retail, but always tied to entertainment. Second was music industry in all its facets, spanning three cities and at least ten job descriptions. Third was interactive / web / digital, where I remain despite the derailment of last Summer.

If I want a more extreme example of a very drastic career change, I need look no further than Brainrub founder Kim Stewart (Stewie, The Stoob, etc.) In the 15 years she and I have been friends, she has been a journalist for a couple of different US dailies,  a copywriter for a variety of online magazines including MSN in its very early days, a travel writer for Expedia, and – most recently – a paramedic, recently working with the US International Medical Surgical Response Team (IMSRT) where she was deployed in Haiti for two weeks, working in a tent hospital.

I strongly encourage you to read her personal blog where she accounts her experiences there. This story, especially, is worth a read.

I guess the point I’m trying to make is that especially if you’re unemployed right now, and especially if you’re discouraged, do not give up hope. There is work to be had, even if that means taking a huge pay cut. (I can’t say that was a necessarily wise decision on my part, but it’s one I made, and I survived it. I’m not alone in that.) If you think you may need to switch careers, there are support systems to help get that going too. In my case I was considering becoming (no joke) a carpenter apprentice, something I might still do in the future. I also debated going back to cooking, something I did for a very brief stint between 1990 and 1992. (But I do cook all the time.)

The work is out there. It may not be the work you want, but it is some work, which at least can take your mind off of the stresses of having no work.

More importantly if you’re in a job you despise, and you wish you could be doing something you feel you aren’t qualified to call your main source of employment, you might be surprised at some of the support methods out there to get you started. If you’re younger than I am (note: just had a birthday) you have an even greater chance of receiving support since it’s mostly younger workers who gain these benefits.

Another thing is: I think we could all agree that the concept of keeping the same job for decades is from a bygone era. I used to know people who worked for Eatons, a century-old department store that went bankrupt in 1998. Before the bankruptcy was even on the horizon (and this was a shocking event in Canada. Eatons was an institution,) the people I knew who worked there had supervisors who were on their 30th year of employment in whatever position that was. I can’t imagine that at all today. I don’t know anyone who can. I’m sure they exist, but their days must be numbered.

So I embrace the fact that even my shiny new job that I love could still be vapor in a few years. That’s no statement about my confidence in my own work, or the strength of the company I work for. It’s just… the facts. GM declared bankruptcy last year. In fact they did so the very day after I was laid off. If I needed an example to complement my personal life-change, that would have to be it. (Leo Burnett does quite a few TV ad campaigns for GM.)

I’ve been working steadily since I was 16. I find that there has really never been a shortage of jobs out there. The shortage is in great companies, smart people and great clients. (In my case anyway.) There are ways to find those also, and fortunately or not that involves a great deal of effort and diligence.

Personally I’m still striving for my ultimate career switch: astronaut. I doubt that will happen anytime soon, but then I never expected to be in the field I’m currently in either.

Thanks for reading.

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We at Brainrub are aware we have been slow at getting new content up here. I think this is a symptom of many sites that are predominantly blogs: people get busy.

The biggest problem we face is separateness. When Brainrub began, that was something to celebrate. Now that we’re all so slammed with our $dayjobs, it’s become a hindrance. We plan to change that.

In the coming weeks we’ll be adding new content, and writing generally about technology and modern life in all its odd contemporary facets.

I’d like to thank those of you who kept pestering me to add new content. You can always check out the Friday Links in the meantime. Those update every week.

Thanks for reading, and stay tuned.

Adam D.

Starting around the second week of December, I started experimenting with interesting ways to give gifts or other random things to friends of mine who live quite far away from me. It’s been interesting to say the least, and has brought to light many of the security risks inherent to long-distance gift giving while using the web as the intermediary.

Keep in mind: I’m in Toronto, Canada.

Here are three examples:

1) Pizza delivery, San Diego, CA.

I have a female friend who lives in San Diego who I talk to very regularly. She was at home one afternoon while I was working and was starving, but didn’t have available cash on hand. On a total whim I decided: I’m gonna buy my friend some lunch. This turned out to be more problematic than it seemed. I first tried using online pizza ordering services like Dominoes, Pizza Hut, etc. All of these require that whoever’s credit card is in use should be present at the address to sign for the order. They both flatly disallowed any third-party purchase without the card owner being present. I suggested to both that they should have a “buy a friend a pizza” option, but both were dismissive of the idea.

I can understand why this would be the case. Any maliciously-minded person could just abuse any credit card and send random pizzas with no checks or balances in place. I get that. But there are several sites out there that offer “this is a gift” options, with reasonable means of verification. (Amazon and ThinkGeek immediately spring to mind.) But, no go.

So I asked her: if you were to order a pizza, where would you order it from. She suggested a place right in her neighborhood: Pizza Gourmet Express [link] They have a website, but no online ordering. It’s a fairly small but popular local operation. So I decided instead that I would call. As luck would have it, I got the actual owner of the establishment on the phone. He turned out to be very receptive. He even knew who I was talking about when I said who I was buying for. He made it clear this was an unusual request, but I made sure he knew he could call me back to confirm who I was, or even call my work to verify my identity further. He said that sounded fine. So I said I’d like to place an order for a pizza and some dessert. Fifteen minutes later my friend sauntered over and picked up her pizza.

Total time to find one pizza place that would accept my remote order: 25 minutes.

Total order time: 5 – 10 minutes.

Time from initial discussion to friend receiving and eating pizza: ~45 minutes.

Success!

I do believe this functionality will likely show up in the future. I just think about parents with their kids away at University wanting to surprise them with a nice dinner or some other little extra. Campusfood.com should offer this option but does not. I think it would be a huge success, and again: the technology to cover all the bases for this process does exist already. Hopefully this is a good “next step” that these restaurants can take.

2) Order a surprise book gift for my friend, Kim, in Seattle, WA

Kim, as you may know, co-authors this blog (though lately neither of us has had much available free time to do so.)

She and I had a lengthy online discussion about all manner of things and at the end of it I was inspired and wanted to send her a book I knew she would enjoy. I had never used any gift feature of any site, and I wanted to remain in my quick and spontaneous moment. I found the book, ordered it, chose to ship it to her address, and Amazon smartly recognized I had never shipped to a third-party address before. It asked me to confirm my credit card. I did so. A few clicks later and off it went. The entire experience lasted maybe 3 minutes, tops. I received a confirmation email 30 minutes later. The package had been shipped. She received it two days later.

This is easily one of the most convenient features of Amazon.com, or indeed any shopping site I’ve ever used.

3) Third party purchase of a DVD for me, via a friend in Austin, TX

I have a friend in Austin, Texas who I converse with regularly about film and music. We’ve known each other for nearly ten years now. He’s a quirky guy and he’s adamant about recommending films for me. I had heard that one of my favorite French films, Betty Blue (or: “37°2 le matin” [wiki]) directed by Jean-Jacques Beineix had had a re-release on dvd adding some 70 minutes to its original length. I had never been able to find a copy anywhere locally so I asked him if he knew where I could find one. He said he’d just go buy it for me but I said I wanted to compensate him for it, since this was a reasonably rare find. (Speaking of which: if anyone has a line on the director’s cut of Michael Mann’s 1985 film Manhunter, I’m all ears.)

He said (via MSN) “well you could do a wire transfer.” I thought that might be too much work. Instead I said “how about a straight online banking transfer?” He felt that would be too complicated. I went to my bank’s online banking section. They actually offer a “transfer to another account” option. Previously this was for accounts which my own bank handled, but I guess they now offer it for any account. I asked him for the details of his account based on the numbers on a typical cheque. He provided this. Approximately 30 minutes later: he had the money transfer.

He went out later that night to buy it, and shipped it the next morning. I received it five days later. (This guy is a pathologically efficient man.)

That may not be the most obvious way to do things but I was surprised to discover this expanded functionality from my online banking. As one would expect, there was a lot of prerequisite “are you sure?” moments in setting up the actual funds transfer, and I did overshoot the actual dollar amount due to the exchange rate. (Call it a gratuity for my film friend’s access to the rare dvd.)

I’m intrigued to see if this kind of transaction becomes more common in the future. When the Internet started to first get popular, I remember seeing pizza delivery sites based solely in Manhattan, which had really comprehensive ordering menus. That was in 1996. Maybe in the coming decade I can buy my friend in San Diego a pizza shipped from Manhattan. That’s obviously a bit of a long shot, but it’s the kind of wacky undertaking I’d love to explore.

Thanks for reading.

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There is a part of me that is competitive, which really might do better with a label like “anal” or “Type A” or possibly “alpha.” But it’s a terribly small part of the larger whole, so it doesn’t surface very often, and thus it seems fairly unimportant. But then someone turned me onto BookMooch, and the idea of mostly free books kicks the larger part of the whole into gear. So I’ve been reading like mad, just so I can finish books and list them and mail them and get new ones for free. It’s a vicious cycle, terribly vicious. And oh so obsessively compulsively good.

BookMooch: Take your old books, list them, mail them, get points, use those points to get other books for free. Life could not be more obsessively good!

Bembos Zoo: An interactive, brilliant way to tell a story about animals using typography, color and sound.

Rosa Loves: You buy a t-shirt based on a story about someone in need, and the money spent goes toward helping those people meet a goal. Wicked cool!

The Sweet Old Etcetera: an interactive web project created by Alison Clifford that sets the poetry of E.E.Cummings against an imaginary landscape.

“You could start,” my friends tell me, “by answering your phone.” This, unfortunately for them, is met with my usual tepid silence. It is not that I am taking time to ponder a meaningful answer. It is more that I don’t have anything to say.

My friends, you see, are not very fond of my cell phone. The problem, they tell me, the real crux of their angst, is that I am not using my cell phone—like the rest of the world does—to communicate with them on a regular basis.

I am not, as it turns out, doing what they do in Japan, which is write entire novels using their thumbs. Nor am I downloading ring tones that get me into embarrassing situations when the phone rings. I am, essentially, a cell phone neophyte.

So I come to find out what they mean by “regular basis.” They mean daily. But judging by their attempts to communicate with me, I would have to argue that “regular basis” really means hourly. Either way, I apparently do not communicate with them on a regular basis, and this is causing them angst.

Communication, they said, could start out slow and work its way up to a regular basis. I could start by simply answering my phone when they call. This, much to their chagrin, makes me laugh because I tell them I would need to start with something more simple than that. I would need, I say slowly and clearly, to start by turning the volume on.

This, unfortunately, is not what they were expecting. What they were expecting, I gather, was more like: “Got it! No problem! I’ll answer every time you call. I really do want to be cellularly hip.” Thus I was not surprised when my comment was followed by an awkward silence, a tilting of the head, and the scrunching of eyebrows.

My cell phone, I explain, is not a constant portal into my world. And I will not answer my phone if I’m engaged in any of the following: sleeping, going to the bathroom, showering, having sex, exercising, relaxing or eating. The list is longer, actually, but those are the big ones, and I’m hoping it’s enough for them to get the point.

Unfortunately, they do not get the point. So I try to be more crystal clear and explain that I don’t use my cell phone for any of the following: taking pictures, listening to music, twittering, surfing, watching videos, managing my life, organizing my social calendar, or downloading ring tones. Again, the list is longer, but at this point I don’t think a longer list will help clarify the point.

You see, I tell them, my cell phone is a tool, and I use it to make phone calls. It’s my one-way portal into the other world. The world that requires I use a phone to call in sick for work, order pizza, reserve quarter barrels of my delicious Pilsner, and refill prescriptions for happy pills. This list, you might have realized, is slightly longer, but hopefully you get my point.

But there is something I don’t tell my friends. I don’t tell them that I am actually trying to communicate on a regular basis. I read their text messages, I look at their photos. Sometimes I even chuckle because something they said is funny. I just don’t typically have a response.

All of this, I know, is terribly analog of me. It also tends to enforce the notion that I’m socially inept. There are other things to add to this list, but I’ll stop here.

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I am not fond of being “online” when I’m on vacation. This is, perhaps, because I prefer to take vacations where technology doesn’t work. It is also one of few times where I will engage in social behavior and actually speak to others in full sentences—with eye contact, even. But this only works if your travel mates are on the same page. Otherwise you find yourself talking to yourself in a potentially psychotic sort of way.